Childhood and depression are two things that shouldn’t go together, but all to frequently do. Life happens to all of us, and kids aren’t immune from its painful realities. As these insults and injuries start to stack up, it can leave children and teens struggling with depression.
Is it normal for a child to be depressed?
Depression among teens is surprisingly common. In fact, around 20% of all teens will become clinically depressed sometime during adolescence (Cloud, 2009), and rates have been rising in recent years. Depression among preteen children is far less prevalent, but still affects around 1 in 20 elementary-age children.
Isolated bouts of depression following an upsetting event are normal for youth, and aren’t necessarily anything to worry about. For example, it’s not unusual for a teen to become severely depressed and not want to get out of bed for a week or two after her boyfriend breaks up with her, or for a younger child to become sullen after the death of a favorite pet. There are also certain events in life, such as the death of a loved one, that are naturally traumatic. In such circumstances, a sullen mood is a normal part of the grieving process.
Such moods really only become a problem when a child remains stuck in this depressive state for longer than a month or two, or when you don’t see any improvement in their mood as time progresses. When depressive symptoms persist, it becomes clinical depression, and something that needs to be addressed.
Why it’s important to take childhood depression seriously
Although not uncommon, depression in children and teens is more worrisome than depression among adults, for a couple reasons. First of all, when depression occurs in preteen children, it is a sign that something is seriously wrong. If these problems aren’t addressed, it can significantly impact their development. While depression among teens is much more normal, and often just a developmental phase, depressed teens are at greater risk for developing unhealthy habits like substance abuse that could affect them the rest of their life. It is also one of the leading causes of suicide. And because both children and teens are more impressionable, and at a more malleable stage in their development, depression in youth has more potential to alter their life course than depression among adults. So while parents shouldn’t panic, and most episodes of youth depression will eventually subside on their own, it is something you should take seriously.
Additional information on childhood depression
Resources for children & teens struggling with depression
The following resources for parents, teachers, and other professionals will help address depression in children and teens:
Additional mental health resources for parents & teachers
This book and the online portions of it linked from this page deal exclusively with childhood depression and its treatment approaches. Yet many times a youth’s depression is merely a symptom of a much broader mental health problem. For those who are concerned about their child’s overall welfare, we also have several other books that caregivers might find useful. Each of these publications address various topics in child welfare:
Troubled Teens
This book will help you better understand why so many kids struggle during adolescence, while discussing ways of helping troubled youth find a positive pathway for their life.
Difficult children
Addresses dealing with kids who have emotional or behavioral disorders, including tips for working with kids with serious emotional disturbances.
Vulnerable children
Valuable information for those working with foster kids, abused or neglected children, kids who have substance-abusing parents, or other youth whose struggles might stem from childhood adversity and a compromised upbringing. It helps you understand what type of vulnerabilities these challenges create and how you can address the underlying insecurities that give rise to mental health issues.
Child mental Health Handbook
A general reference book for parents and teachers. It discusses how mental health problems are diagnosed, problems with the diagnostic process, what types of biological and environmental factors give rise to mental health problems, and information on the different diagnoses. A useful book for parents who want to learn more about the way mental health issues are handled in this country.
How Society Is Making Kids Ill (Coming soon)
Unfortunately, many aspects of our culture are not very friendly to the spirit and welfare of children. This book discusses why our society is driving up rates of mental illness in children to unprecedented levels, and what parents can do about it.
Helping Kids Heal: A Guide to Childhood Trauma & Recovery
Information and techniques to help children recover in the aftermath of a traumatic experience, whether that trauma be the death of a loved one, living through a natural disaster, experiencing violence, or even dealing with socially traumatic experiences like divorce. A good resource to help kids who are symptomatic because of recent turmoil in their lives.
More Information for Parents:
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See also…
- Facts & Statistics About Child Mental Health
- Why Kids Are Struggling: Causes of Child Psychological & Mental Health Problems
- Mental Health Resources for Kids
- Psychotherapy For Children & Teens
- Choosing A Therapist For Your Child Or The Family
- Cognitive Therapy & Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
- Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT)
- Exposure Therapy For Children & Teens
- Light Therapy For Children & Teens
- Play Therapy for Children
- Psychoanalysis & Psychoanalytic Therapy
- Psychodynamic Therapy For Children & Teens
- Psychological Therapy for Children
- Shock Therapy For Children & Teens
- Stress Debriefing Therapy For Children, Teens, & Families
- The Potential Dangers of Psychological Therapy
- Psychiatric Drugs & Behavioral Medication For Children
- Antidepressants & Suicide Risk In Children & Teens
- Statistics on Psychiatric & Behavioral Medication Use Among Children
- How Effective Are Psychological & Behavioral Medications for Children?
- Antidepressant Use in Children
- Preschool Children On Psychiatric Medication
- Side-Effects & Consequences of Antipsychotic Use Among Children
- Children & Psychiatric Medication
- Pushing Medication on Kids Who Don’t Need It
- Over Medicating Children
- Diagnosing Mental Health Disorders in Children & Teens
- Defining Nornal Versus Abnormal Behavior in Children
- Why Diagnosis Is A Matter Of Interpretation
- Outside Incentives & The Role They Play in Misdiagnosis
- Blaming Children for Poor Environments
- Everyone’s Crazy: The Ever Expanding Definitions of Mental Illness
- Over Diagnosing Children With Mental Health & Behavioral Disorders
- When Childhood Becomes Pathological
- If Your Child Is Diagnosed With A Psychological or Behavioral Disorder
- The Ever-Expanding Definition of Mental Illness
- Child Mental Health Disorders
- Anxiety in Children
- Facts & Statistics About Anxiety in Children & Teens
- Panic Attacks
- Types of Anxiety Disorder in Children
- Social Anxiety & Social Phobia in Children
- Causes of Child Anxiety: The Reasons for Anxiety Disorders
- Anxiety Prevention for Kids; Preventing Anxiety in Children
- Helping Kids With Anxiety
- Separation Anxiety In Children
- Signs & Symptoms of Anxiety in Children
- Anxiety Disorders In Children
- Attachment Disorders
- Bipolar Disorder in Children
- Borderline Personality Disorder in Children & Teens
- Callous & Unemotional Traits in Children
- Conduct Disorder in Children & Teens
- Cutting & Self Injury Among Children
- Depression in Children & Teens
- Disturbed Children
- Eating Disorders in Children & Teens
- Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) in Children & Teens
- Oppositional Defiant Disorder in Children & Teens
- Runaway Youth
- Schizophrenia in Children & Teens
- Suicide In Children & Teens
- Suicide & Suicidal Thoughts In Young Children
- Teen Suicide Notes
- How To Intervene To Stop A Youth From Committing Suicide
- Youth Suicide Prevention
- Youth Statistics: Suicide Among Children & Teens
- Talking To Teens About Suicide: Getting Kids To Open Up
- Causes & Contributors To Youth Suicide
- Children At Risk For Suicide
- Helping Suicidal Youth
- How To Talk A Teen Out Of Suicide
- Suicide & Suicidal Problems Among Children & Teens
- Talking To Suicidal Teens
- Warning Signs For Teen Suicides
- What To Say & Do When a Youth Says They’re Considering Suicide
- Why Teens Kill Themselves
- Tics & Tic Disorders
- Tourette’s Syndrome